Sage’s Story

Legal protections can provide a framework for safety, but they can’t always guarantee it. For Sage*, this reality became clear even after obtaining a Protection From Abuse order (PFA). “Even with the PFA, I don’t feel like that is really going to keep him away nor do I feel safe to be at that residence.”

The decision to leave came swiftly, driven by immediate safety concerns. Sage found temporary refuge with a friend while searching for permanent housing. However, like many survivors of domestic violence, she faced a daunting financial hurdle: the need to pay rent at both her current residence and any new housing she secured.

The Hidden Costs of Safety

The process of leaving created its own cascade of financial challenges. “I’m just looking to relocate just to avoid the situation that I have going on,” Sage explained. “My rent for this month is still due, due to the fact that I’ve just been having to call off due to having to try to get down to the court and do different things to try to basically avoid him.”

This scenario illustrates a common trap: the costs of seeking safety—missed work for court appearances, legal fees, and duplicate housing payments—can make escape seem financially impossible.

A Swift Response

Understanding that timing is crucial in domestic violence situations, Footbridge moved quickly to provide $1,600 for the security deposit and first month’s rent at Sage’s new residence. This rapid response meant she wouldn’t have to choose between safety and financial stability.

A Broader Perspective

While protection orders serve an important legal function, survivors often need more tangible support to achieve safety. The financial burden of maintaining two residences during transition periods can force many to remain in dangerous situations, even with legal protections in place.

In these critical moments, Footbridge’s ability to provide flexible, rapid financial assistance alongside other community resources helps remove the practical barriers that often keep survivors trapped. This swift intervention can make the difference between staying and leaving and ultimately, the safety of caregivers and their children.

*This name has been changed for privacy reasons.